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Family & Domestic Violence Lawyers Melbourne
Our Melbourne Family and Domestic Violence lawyers will help you to seek protection, respond to applications and address family law matters impacted by family violence concerns with compassionate support and skilled legal advocacy. Schedule your first appointment, free, to get started.
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Our team offers support and confidential advice to individuals and families facing domestic and family violence matters.
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What Is Domestic & Family Violence?
Domestic and family violence is still sadly common and occurs across many relationship dynamics, including intimate partnerships, such as marriages and de facto relationships, and between family members. Intimate partner violence is the most common form of domestic and family violence, but it can affect mothers, fathers, siblings, uncles or aunts, grandparents, guardians and foster carers. There are times when the abuse occurs from a child, in cases of parental or sibling violence.
Family violence can include physical or sexual abuse, emotional or psychological abuse, economic abuse, threatening or coercive behaviour, and other behaviour that controls or dominates a family member and causes fear. It may involve a single incident or a pattern of behaviour over time, and it can occur without physical or sexual violence.
This type of violence is almost always underpinned by an element of control, coercion or intimidation, even in the absence of physical or sexual violence. Definitions for domestic and family violence can be found in both Part 2, Section 5 of the Family Violence Protection Act 2008 (Vic) and section 4AB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).

Family Violence, Parenting, Property & Separation
Family violence can have significant impacts on parenting arrangements, property settlement and separation matters. Intervention orders and family violence allegations can complicate parenting orders, and must be carefully managed.
If orders appear to conflict it’s important to seek legal advice as early as possible, and ensure that children’s safety is paramount if you are the affected party. As a respondent, it’s crucial not to breach an FVIO - and if you have concerns about seeing your children or existing court orders, seek advice before taking action.
Recent amendments to the Family Law Act 1975 have strengthened how family violence is considered in both parenting decisions and property proceedings, so it’s important to be aware of the new laws, and how they may relate to your family law matter. Please speak to our team today if you have an upcoming court case or require immediate help with family violence, parenting or property matters.
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Understanding The Different Types of Family & Domestic Violence
Many people mistakenly believe that family and domestic violence is limited to physical and sexual violence, but in reality, there are many forms these behaviours can take. It’s quite common for emotional, psychological or economic abuse to exist without physical or sexual violence, or before matters escalate to physical or sexual harm occurring.
Family violence includes:
- Physical and sexual violence, or threats
- Emotional and psychological abuse, including insults, gaslighting, humiliation or intimidation
- Coercive and controlling behaviours, threats and limiting another’s autonomy
- Economic and financial abuse, including limiting access to money, forcing someone to work or collect social security benefits, preventing someone from working, incurring debts in another person’s name, dowry abuse or coercion
- Threatening to hurt loved ones, pets or property
- Isolating someone from their friends, family, co-workers, community or culture
- Monitoring, tracking, or stalking, physically or through the use of technology
- Restricting someone’s freedom of movement or right to privacy
- Systems abuse, which includes misusing legal, government, financial, police, child protection, child support and other systems and services
- Exposing a child to family violence, including seeing, hearing or experiencing its effects
This list is not exhaustive, and family and domestic violence looks different for every person who experiences it. It can also be gradual, or occur in a way that makes the person experiencing it doubt their reality or blame themselves. If you are experiencing any of these behaviours, it’s important to seek assistance as early as possible.
We Work With Both Affected Family Members & Respondents
At Pearsons Lawyers, we understand the effects and implications of family and domestic violence, and how sensitive and challenging these matters can be.
We help people who are experiencing family violence to put protective measures in place, support them through the legal process and assist with managing family law matters that have family violence dynamics.
We also assist people who are facing allegations of domestic or family violence, whether as a respondent to an order application, or during parenting or property proceedings.
If you need legal assistance to seek protection, or address allegations, we recommend you get in touch for a confidential discussion about your options. Our Family and Domestic Violence Lawyers handle all matters with sensitivity and will work towards a resolution that protects your safety and legal interests.
How Our Domestic & Family Violence Lawyers Can Help
We offer a wide range of support and legal options for people who are addressing family and domestic violence matters.
We can assist you with:
- Urgent court hearings related to Family Violence Intervention Orders, parenting matters or the safety and wellbeing of affected persons and their children
- Advice and legal representation for Intervention Orders and Family Law matters affected by violence
- Applying for or altering a Family Violence Intervention Order
- Responding to, contesting or altering a Family Violence Intervention Order
- Parenting, property and separation matters with family and domestic violence dynamics
- Understanding how FVIO, parenting plans and parenting orders overlap
- Updating current orders in place to reflect necessary changes
- Assisting with safety planning or working alongside your safety supports
Get in touch with our Melbourne team today for a free, confidential chat on how we can assist you.
Family Violence Intervention Orders (FVIO’s)
A Family Violence Protection Order (FVIO) is one of two types of Intervention Orders that can be granted in Victoria, under the Family Violence Protection Act 2008 (Vic). Police attending an incident can issue a family violence safety notice, and apply for an order on behalf of the affected family member/s. Many FVIOs are made by private application through the Magistrates Court. The person/s protected under the order are called the ‘affected party’, and children can also be named on the order.
The person protection is sought from is called ‘the respondent’. It’s important to seek legal assistance before responding to an order, because the way you choose to respond can have significant impacts on family law matters, employment, travel and visa status. Always follow the terms set out on an order, as breaching it is a criminal offence. To find out more about intervention orders, get in touch with our Melbourne Intervention Order Lawyers for advice personalised to your situation.

‘Family violence means violent, threatening or other behaviour by a person that coerces or controls a member of the person's family (the family member ), or causes the family member to be fearful.’
Part I, Section 4AB, Family Law Act 1975 (Cth)
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We’ll answer any questions you may have, explain the legal process and ensure you understand your rights, obligations and available protections and responses.
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Receive clear advice, ongoing support and strong advocacy to help you move forward from this challenging stage of your life.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I need help right now. Who do I call?
If you or someone you care about is in danger and needs immediate help, please contact 000.
For confidential support, information and counselling about domestic and family violence, contact:
- 1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732
- Safe Steps Victoria: 1800 015 188 (24/7 family violence response service)
- Victoria Police Family Violence Information Line: 1800 755 988
- MensLine Australia: 1300 789 978 (confidential support for men)
- Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800
- Lifeline: 13 11 14
Help is available.
Are domestic and family violence discussions confidential?
If you are experiencing family violence from a partner or family member or responding to family violence orders or charges, getting the right advice and support is crucial. Your matter will be treated as confidential, subject to limited legal and professional exceptions, and we will approach your matter with professionalism and sensitivity. We understand that privacy and safety can be especially important in family violence matters and can explain how your information will be handled before you provide sensitive details.
We understand it can be hard to seek assistance in these circumstances and the truly devastating effect family violence can have. Our Melbourne team of Domestic Violence Lawyers are known for their skilled and empathetic approach, and will ensure you receive the legal support required to address your situation.
What is domestic and family violence?
Domestic and family violence is behaviour by one person that controls, coerces, threatens or causes someone else to fear for their safety and wellbeing. It can occur in intimate partner relationships or between family members, and is not at all limited to sexual or physical violence. In Victoria, family violence is defined under section 5 of the Family Violence Protection Act 2008 (Vic), which governs Family Violence Intervention Orders. It is also outlined in section 4AB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) which applies to parenting and family law matters.
Is domestic and family violence a criminal offence in Australia?
It can be, yes. The laws around domestic and family violence cross civil matters, family law matters, and in serious cases, criminal matters. Laws also vary by state. When an Intervention Order is placed, it is a civil protective order. Civil law covers disputes between two people, and orders made under civil law are not a criminal matter unless they are breached. Civil orders can affect family law matters.
Breaches of intervention orders are a criminal offence. Assault and similar offences directed at another person are also criminal offences. Breaches can be treated very seriously, with a range of penalties, including travel restrictions, visa issues, employment issues, large fines and imprisonment.
What is a Family Violence Intervention Order?
In Victoria, an FVIO is an intervention order which is put in place to prevent one person from causing harm to another person, which is decided in the Magistrates Court. There are two types of intervention orders (IVO) in Victoria, which are Family Violence Intervention Orders (FVIOs) and Personal Safety Intervention Orders (PSIO). FVIOs are for people in intimate relationships (or formerly in one), family members and dependants, and PSIOs are used when there is less of a personal relationship, such as with colleagues, neighbours or strangers. These orders are known by multiple names in Australia, including state names and common names in Australia, including intervention order, ‘restraining order’, AVO, DVO, IVO or a protection order - but all serve similar purposes.
They have strict conditions that restrict the person named from abusive or harmful behaviour, restrict contact and third party contact, restrict location and proximity to the protected person/s, as well as stalking, following, tracking or tracing. Weapons restrictions are also put into place for people with gun licences. The police may apply for them on behalf of an affected person or persons. This can happen for instance, if the police attend a home and feel that the circumstances indicate a reasonable need for one party to be protected from another.
Can you help me if I have been accused of family violence?
In most cases yes, although you will need to speak to a Criminal Lawyer if your matter has moved to criminal charges or a breach of an FVIO. If you have been accused of family violence it’s essential to get legal advice early, especially if an application has been made for a FVIO and/or you have parenting or property matters to address. Our Family and Domestic Violence Lawyers can advise and represent you with regards to intervention orders, parenting matters and related family law matters. We provide advice and representation without judgement, ensuring you understand your rights, responsibilities and options.
How does family violence affect parenting and custody?
Family violence is a significant consideration when it comes to parenting matters (formerly known as child custody). The Court is focused on what is in a child’s best interests, and keeping them safe from harm. Allegations of family violence will be assessed, and evidence of family violence may affect decision-making arrangements, communication between parents, changeovers and the time a child spends with each parent. If you have a FVIO and parenting orders in place, it’s important to get legal advice to ensure that any overlap of the orders does not cause further legal issues.
How does family violence affect a property settlement?
Family violence can affect property settlements when it has affected someone’s ability to contribute, their financial circumstances or ability to work and earn money. It’s now a consideration under section 79(4)(ca) for married couples, and 90SM(4)(ca) for de facto couples in the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth). The relevance and weight of family violence will depend on the evidence and circumstances of the case. You can find out more about this in our recent article ‘How domestic violence affects property settlements’, or by speaking with our Melbourne team for advice relative to your situation.
What happens at the free first appointment?
Your first appointment with Pearsons Lawyers is a free, confidential opportunity to discuss your circumstances with an experienced Domestic and Family Violence Lawyer. We’ll listen to your concerns, help you to address any immediate issues and understand the next steps of the legal process. There is no obligation to proceed, and you will leave with further clarity about your situation.
What should I look for when choosing a family violence lawyer?
It’s important to choose a lawyer who you feel comfortable with, and someone who understands both the legal and emotional aspects of family violence matters. Look for someone with experience in ‘high-conflict’ separation matters, difficult relationship dynamics, intervention orders, parenting disputes and related family law issues. You can ask others for recommendations, or speak to a specialist family violence service, read reviews and have a direct chat to see if you feel they can meet your requirements.
Do I have to go to court?
It depends on the type of domestic or family violence matter you are dealing with. An FVIO application will be heard at the Magistrate’s Court, but not every matter moves to a hearing. If a hearing is required, you may be able to attend remotely if you have safety concerns. Many family law matters such as parenting and property can be resolved out of court, through negotiation, FDR, mediation or consent orders, but may require a court proceedings, and very occasionally may result in a trial. If criminal charges are laid related to family violence they will be dealt with through the criminal court process.
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